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The Pediatric Mental Health Waitlist Crisis: 6–18 Months to See Someone
Child psychiatrist appointments take 6–18 months in most cities. Here's what the research says about evidence-based options while your child waits — and which ones risk making things worse.
In October 2021, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, and the Children’s Hospital Association jointly declared a national emergency in children’s mental health. Four years later, the shortage has worsened, not improved. The average wait time for a child and adolescent psychiatry appointment in the United States is now 6-18 months in most metro areas. In rural areas, the wait can exceed two years.
Parents leave pediatrician appointments with referrals they cannot fill. They enter a system that asked them to recognize the problem, advocate for their child, and find help — and then offers no available help within any reasonable timeframe.
How Bad the Waitlist Crisis Actually Is
The data from 2024-2025:
- The United States has approximately 1 child and adolescent psychiatrist per 1,200 children who need psychiatric care. The shortage is not projected to improve for at least a decade, given psychiatric training program capacity and retirement rates.
- 60% of U.S. counties have no child psychiatrists at all.
- The 2025 Mental Health America report found that 57% of children with a diagnosed mental health condition received no treatment in the previous year — primarily because of access barriers, not lack of parent effort.
- Emergency department visits for pediatric mental health crises have increased 30% since 2020, largely driven by families who cannot access outpatient care and whose children reach crisis before they can be seen.
Why the Shortage Happened and Why It’s Getting Worse
Several factors converged:
Mental health awareness increased demand dramatically. The public health campaigns of the 2010s and 2020s worked: more families are seeking care than ever. The supply side — psychiatric training programs, psychologist licensing pipelines — didn’t expand proportionally.
The pandemic accelerated need while simultaneously disrupting training. Medical and psychology training programs had reduced clinical hours during 2020-2022 precisely when demand was accelerating.
Insurance reimbursement rates don’t support private practice sustainability. Many private child psychiatrists and psychologists don’t accept insurance, because Medicaid and many commercial insurance reimbursement rates for mental health services are far below costs. Families without the means to pay out of pocket face the worst access problems.
What to Do During the Wait: What Evidence Actually Supports
The research on interim mental health support — what helps and what doesn’t during a months-long wait for specialty care — is specific.
| Intervention | Evidence for Waitlist Period | Cost | Age Range | What It Addresses |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| School-based counseling (if available) | Moderate–High | Free (in-school) | All ages | Depression, anxiety, academic concerns |
| Telehealth therapy (licensed therapist, not psychiatry) | High for therapy; can’t prescribe | $0–$150/session | 6+ | Anxiety, depression, behavioral issues |
| Crisis Text Line / 988 | High for crisis stabilization | Free | 13+ | Acute crisis support |
| Pediatrician mental health management | Moderate (with training) | Standard copay | All ages | Mild-moderate anxiety, depression, ADHD |
| Parent-child CBT workbooks (structured self-help) | Moderate for anxiety/mild depression | $15–$30 | 6–14 (parent-led) | Anxiety, specific fears |
| Community mental health centers | Variable (longer waits too) | Sliding scale | All ages | Broad |
| Unstructured social media “support” | Potentially negative | Free | Teens | — |
What Telehealth Does and Doesn’t Cover
Telehealth therapy — video sessions with a licensed therapist — has expanded dramatically and is now widely available, often with shorter waits than in-person. For anxiety, depression, and many behavioral issues, telehealth shows comparable outcomes to in-person therapy for children 8 and older.
What telehealth therapy cannot do: prescribe medication. If your child needs a psychiatric evaluation for medication management, the psychiatrist wait is still required. A telehealth therapist can provide documentation that may expedite the psychiatry evaluation.
When to Go to the Emergency Department
The research on parents’ decision to use the ER for mental health crises identifies three clear indications:
- Active suicidal ideation with plan or means
- Active self-harm that requires medical attention
- Psychosis (hearing voices, significant disorganization)
Non-emergency conditions — even serious ones like significant depression or anxiety — are better managed outside the ER when possible. ER mental health evaluations focus on safety, not treatment planning, and the ER visit often resets the outpatient referral process rather than accelerating it.
FAQ
I’ve been on every waitlist I can find. What else can I do?
Pediatricians with training in mental health can manage mild-to-moderate depression, anxiety, and ADHD while you wait for specialty care. Ask your pediatrician explicitly: “Can you manage [condition] or prescribe [medication] while we’re on the waitlist?” More pediatricians are doing this now, but only if asked.
Is telehealth therapy as good as in-person?
For anxiety and depression in children 8 and older, multiple randomized trials show comparable outcomes. For younger children (under 8) and for children who need significant parent coaching in session, in-person therapy shows stronger outcomes. Telehealth is substantially better than no therapy during a long wait.
What’s the difference between a therapist, psychologist, and psychiatrist?
Therapists (LCSWs, LMFTs) provide talk therapy. Psychologists (PhDs, PsyDs) provide psychological assessment and therapy. Psychiatrists (MDs) can prescribe medication and provide psychiatric evaluation. Most children need a therapist. Children with medication needs require a psychiatrist or a prescribing pediatrician.
About the author
Ricky Flores is the founder of HiWave Makers and an electrical engineer with 15+ years of experience building consumer technology at Apple, Samsung, and Texas Instruments. He writes about how kids learn to build, think, and create in a tech-saturated world. Read more at hiwavemakers.com.
Sources
- American Academy of Pediatrics, American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, & Children’s Hospital Association. (2021). Declaration of a national emergency in child and adolescent mental health. aap.org. https://www.aap.org/en/advocacy/child-and-adolescent-healthy-mental-development/aap-aacap-cha-declaration-of-a-national-emergency-in-child-and-adolescent-mental-health/
- Mental Health America. (2025). 2025 State of mental health in America report. mhanational.org. https://www.mhanational.org
- HRSA. (2024). Health professional shortage areas: Mental health. bhw.hrsa.gov. https://bhw.hrsa.gov/workforce-shortage-areas
- JAMA Pediatrics. (2024). Emergency department use for pediatric mental health. jamanetwork.com. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapediatrics
- National Institute of Mental Health. (2024). Mental health information: Children and adolescents. nimh.nih.gov. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/child-and-adolescent-mental-health
